 General Info
| I Am Here For: |
For a New Experience, To Explore My Sexuality, To Meet People |
| Marital Status: |
In a Relationship |
| Children: |
Have children |
| Education: |
Graduate School |
| Religion: |
Agnostic |
| Smoke: |
No |
| Drink: |
No |
| Occupation: |
N/A |
| Body Type: |
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| Height: |
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| Ethnicity: |
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| Languages: |
English |
Sexy Stuff
| I Am Looking For: |
Virtual Relationship, Cyber Sex, Social Encounters, Just Looking, Real Life Relationship, Erotic Chat, Cyber Friendships |
| Sexual Fantasies: |
Swapping, Domination, Bondage, A Beach, Costumes, Toys, Multiple People, Massage Oil, A Public Place, Exhibition & Voyeurism |
| Sex is Best: |
Casual, Passionate, Loving, Experimental, With a Stranger, Wild, Kinky, In a Relationship |
| Cybersex: |
Yes |
| I Want You To: |
Play Along With My Fantasy, Tell Me You Love Me, Meet Me In Person If We Really Click, Talk Dirty to Me, Tell Me I'm The Best, Teach Me New Tricks, Tell Me Your Fantasy |
| Cybersex Personality: |
Seductress/Seductor, Experienced, Loving, Passionate, Voyeur, Threesomes, The More The Merrier, Adventurous, Kinky, Aggressive, Wild, Role Player, Exhibitionist |
My Web Gifts
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Social Status
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| Karma: | 0 |
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| Friendliness: | 0 |
Sea_of_cum's Scoop
About me:
The quote above was from John Keats, but it expresses something that I have often felt. That is, when we try too hard to be certain, "grasping after fact" we lose something in the translation. Life is far too complex to hold in a single vision, or a frozen moment of capture. Something changes in the act of measurement so we are often just seeing our own eye in the lens of the microscope. It is far better to be open to new experience than to be hopelessly caught in sticky debris of our memories and assumed knowledge. That is how I understand negative capability.
A lot of people have asked me about why I call myself sea_of_cum on RLC and some have even been offended or ridiculed me. This is OK, I wanted to call myself something that would convey the power of sexual energy with a metaphor of the sea, but it is also meant to be just plain humorous. I don't like to take myself too seriously. For me both sex and humor are very important because they move us beyond ourselves.
I have been looked at by some women (names withheld) as just another example of a too horny male thinking with his penis. Yes and no. My penis is certainly a strong influence in my life and I do not deny that it has a lot of sway over me, but there is also certainly something more to me. For one thing, I care about people and am loyal to my friends to a fault.
I like sex an awful lot, and would consider myself an addict if I wanted to think of this as some kind of pathology. No, a destructive (to my self or others) sex addict I will not be. I prefer to think of myself as a sex adept and an unrepentant sexual explorer, and I hope that those people that explore with me enjoy it as much as I do. This is an act of co-creation and I don't apologize for being a bit obsessed with finding it in all of its its many faceted expressions.
Who I'd like to meet:
Women who aren't afraid of there sexuality; PEOPLE WHOSE EGOS ARE NOT LARGER THAN THEY ARE; people who think that are also sexual; people that are sexual who are also thinkers; sexual adepts and explorers.
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More About Sea_of_cum
My Other Profile/Website Links:
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Interests:
Reading, writing, movies, plays and acting, Taoist sexual practices; and all varieties of sex (not necessarily in that order)
My Favorite Websites:
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Music:
Alternative and indi rock; Jazz, Blues, Reggae, dance music, latin and salsa
Movies:
Wild Strawberries; Murmur of the Heart; Rear Window
Books:
The God of Small Things; Bone People; The House Made of Dawn; The Stranger; The Heart of Darkness; Moby Dick
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