here is what I really seek:
Intelligence
Honesty
A sense of humour
Intelligence
Comfort with oneself
Inner beauty
Intelligence
Independence
Inner strength
Intelligence
Individuality
And of course the deep inner feeling of submission
It seems sometimes that I seek too much. But I know that you exist out there somewhere, and that you are probably already taken. This would seem to be my lot in life, but I refuse to admit defeat.
Know you, that I value honesty and independence above all other things.
I am not interested in head games I haved played them far too often, and I have been played as well. I am comfortable with myself and need you to be as well because I am often not available due to my work habits.
I offer you all that I have as a Dom and as a person, however, know that I am not monogamous and do not seek someone who is seeking to subvert control in this area over time, rather, I seek someone who is comfortable with the thought of sharing both themselves and me with others.
This does not mean that I do not seek someone with whom I can have a dedicated relationship with, rather it means that I seek that in a person who understands, accepts and even encourages that I seek others that I can have a more casual one with as well or even others that we all can be dedicated to each other with.
I seek a person not a doormat. I am a sadist is most things in life and your inner strength and limits and the ability for you to hold to and vocalize them is imparative for a healthy relationship with me.
The submissive women I seek are definitely not weak, but I also do not seek someone who attempts to manipulate or wrest control - that doesn't work with me, I am always in control, even if it might not appear to you that I am.
I am the kind of Dominant that expects a submissive to control themselves but still serve under the parameters of my control. I do not like to micromanage. The kind of submissives for me are those that choose to obey because that is who they are, not because they fear punishment or reprisals. However, I will not hesitate to inflict reprisals on unacceptable behaviour.
I loathe stupidity above all things and I am much deeper than I sometimes appear.
I am not interested in a cyber relationship, but I will of course use that as a conduit to deeper understanding.
I am both into giving true pain to those that enjoy that, and that subtle exploration of that sweet spot, where pain and pleasure mix. I am always a sadist and I am always one to have the control., but note that being a sadist and in control does not mean being an asshole.
I am complex yet simple, Intelligent yet sometimes fall flat on my face.
curiosity piqued? just wanna talk?
(honestly I seek good friends first and as well)
Drop me a line and let's see what happens
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